Understanding Breadcrumbing: When They Keep You on The Hook
The Situation
"He keeps me on the hook but dates other people"
The Brutal Truth
He's using you as a backup plan while pursuing other options. His commitment is minimal, and he enjoys the attention without the responsibility. You're a convenience, not a priority.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling harder, hoping to prove their worth and win commitment, but this only fuels their insecurity and reinforces his lack of respect for boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to give love only to those who prioritize you as much as you do them?
✨ What To Do Next
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