Understanding Ghosting: What Does It Mean When Someone Disappears After a Date?
The Situation
"She said she had a great time then completely disappeared"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior reveals he wasn't serious or trustworthy. Saying she had a great time was just a polite cover for his lack of interest. Ghosting is a clear sign of emotional unavailability or avoidance, not a reflection of your worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bombard her with texts asking why she disappeared, trying to seek validation and explanation. This is wrong because it can come off as needy and desperate, which only reinforces his decision to ghost.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes that you need to chase after someone who disappears, and how does that impact your self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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