Understanding His Indifference: Why He Never Asks About You
The Situation
"He never asks how I'm doing or what's going on in my life"
The Brutal Truth
He's either not interested in you, emotionally unavailable, or too self-absorbed to care about your life. This lack of curiosity shows he doesn't value you as a partner deserving of consideration or engagement; it’s a huge red flag in dating.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to overcompensate by texting him more, seeking validation through others, or questioning their worth. This is wrong because it puts their self-value in someone else's hands, instead of recognizing they deserve better.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this behavior reveal about the standards you've set for how you're treated in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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