Understanding Mixed Signals: She's Not Seeing Anyone But Is on Dating Apps
The Situation
"She said she's not seeing anyone else but I found her on dating apps"
The Brutal Truth
Her statement about not seeing anyone else is a lie. She's either avoiding commitment or keeping her options open while stringing you along. Don't let this be your pattern—it's indicative of emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might double down on seeking reassurance or confront her aggressively, creating tension that can push her even further away. This approach is toxic because it will only solidify your position in the cycle of insecurity.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it reveal about your self-worth when you feel the need to compete for someone's attention?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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