Understanding Red Flags in Dating: Social Media Boundaries
The Situation
"She posts my traditions online without understanding them"
The Brutal Truth
He doesn't respect your boundaries or the significance of your traditions. By posting them without understanding, he shows a lack of empathy and concern for what matters to you, treating your culture like content rather than a valued part of you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-explain their traditions or defend them excessively to justify their value. This is wrong because it compromises your boundaries and self-worth, equating your worth with his understanding.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my self-worth if I feel the need to justify my traditions to someone who doesn't value them?
✨ What To Do Next
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