Understanding Red Flags: When Your Partner Hides Important Information
The Situation
"She hides court paperwork and says it's none of my business"
The Brutal Truth
She's keeping court paperwork from you because she knows it could lead to conflict or discomfort. Hiding this kind of information is a serious red flag—it signifies a lack of trust and openness in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to confront her about it and seek reassurance, believing that if they just talk it out enough, things will get better. This approach often exacerbates the situation and compromises their boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me is willing to accept secrecy in exchange for companionship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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