Unexpected Friends Crash Your Date: Red Flags
The Situation
"She invites her friends to crash on our couch without warning"
The Brutal Truth
This behavior shouts disregard for your space and boundaries. She values her friends' comfort over your relationship, showing a lack of respect for your needs. It's a sign she might not prioritize a healthy partnership or communication with you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to please her by accommodating her friends, even at their own expense, believing this will gain her approval. This is the wrong move because it reinforces her disregard for your comfort and your boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of me believes I need to tolerate disrespect for the sake of keeping peace?
✨ What To Do Next
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