Why Leaving the Door Unlocked Signals Trust Issues in Dating
The Situation
"He leaves the door unlocked and says I'm paranoid"
The Brutal Truth
His unlocked door and your paranoia are signs of deep trust issues. He may dismiss your concerns instead of addressing them, revealing a lack of respect for your feelings and boundaries.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-explain their feelings or apologize for their anxiety, trying to placate him. This is wrong because it reinforces his dismissive behavior and undermines your own valid feelings.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does my need for safety and security look like in a relationship, and how can I communicate that clearly?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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