Why Your Partner's Vacationing with Their Ex is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She still vacations with her ex for the kids and expects me to be fine"
The Brutal Truth
He’s minimizing your feelings and prioritizing his comfort over your relationship. This situation signals a lack of emotional maturity and respect for your boundaries, indicating that he may not be the right partner for you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince themselves this is normal, suppress their emotions, or agree to it out of fear of losing the relationship. This is wrong because it allows his disrespect to dictate your worth and boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What is the standard you’re willing to accept for your own emotional peace and security in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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