Why Wanting to Meet But Not Picking a Time is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She said she wants to meet but won't pick a time"
The Brutal Truth
Her willingness to meet but refusal to schedule a time indicates uncertainty or lack of genuine interest. This may be a tactic to keep you engaged while she weighs her options, reflecting emotional unavailability or commitment issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze every detail, constantly reach out for reassurance, or attempt to pressure her into choosing a time. This is unhealthy; it ignores your worth and leads to more anxiety and insecurity.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of your past has taught you to chase after someone who keeps you guessing?
✨ What To Do Next
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