When He's Not There for You: Recognizing Emotional Unavailability
The Situation
"He's never there for me when I need emotional support"
The Brutal Truth
His absence during your times of need signals that he prioritizes his own comfort over your emotional health. This is a clear indication he’s emotionally unavailable or doesn’t truly care about your wellbeing. You deserve better than being an afterthought.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after him, seeking reassurance and validation, often over-explaining their feelings. This is counterproductive and perpetuates unhealthy dynamics, often leading to more frustration and disappointment.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I truly need from a partner to feel emotionally secure and supported?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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