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Why He Acts Different Around Friends: Understanding Mixed Signals

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The Situation

"He acts different around his friends than when we're alone"

The Brutal Truth

His behavior suggests he’s not comfortable being authentic with you or he’s hiding something. It’s a classic case of masking his true self, indicating either a lack of confidence or fear of judgment around you.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might over-analyze every moment and demand answers, pushing for clarity in a way that could come off as needy or desperate. This only creates more pressure. Instead, trust yourself to assess the situation honestly.

💭 Something to Reflect On

What does his behavior reveal about what you truly want in a partner?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's work together to help you trust yourself, set boundaries, and attract the love you deserve.

Mariana - Relationship Coach

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