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Why He Never Asks You Questions on Dates: A Warning Sign

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 7/10
#emotional-unavailability#red-flags#commitment-issues#anxious-attachment

The Situation

"He never asks me questions about myself on dates"

The Brutal Truth

His lack of interest in your thoughts shows he’s either self-centered or emotionally unavailable. This isn't about you; it’s about his inability to connect. You're not a priority, which is a huge red flag for any budding relationship.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might overanalyze this behavior, doubting their worth, wondering if they should become more interesting or appealing to him. This is toxic thinking and diminishes your self-value.

💭 Something to Reflect On

What does it say about my self-worth if I continue to engage with someone who shows no genuine interest in me?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's work together to help you trust yourself, set boundaries, and attract the love you deserve.

Mariana - Relationship Coach

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