Why You Shouldn't Comfort Him After His Mediation Sessions
The Situation
"He expects me to comfort him after mediation sessions"
The Brutal Truth
He’s using you as an emotional crutch after his conflicts without considering your needs. This shows selfishness and a lack of accountability for his own feelings. It’s not your job to fix him, and he needs to handle his own emotional baggage.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might rush to comfort him, thinking they can fix his emotions or make him feel better. This is harmful because it prioritizes his needs over your own, reinforcing the idea that your feelings don’t matter.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your emotional needs in a relationship instead of solely focusing on his?
✨ What To Do Next
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