Why Your Ex Moved On So Quickly After the Breakup
The Situation
"He broke up with me then started dating someone new immediately"
The Brutal Truth
He moved on immediately because he was never truly invested in you. His desire for someone new indicates a lack of commitment and respect towards your relationship, showing he doesn’t value the emotional connection you shared.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively check his social media or reach out to confront him about his new relationship. This is wrong because it disregards their own worth and needs, seeking validation from someone who already disrespected them.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If your best friend experienced this, what would you advise her about her self-worth and the standards she deserves in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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