Why You're Always Available But She Only Sees You When Convenient
The Situation
"I'm always available for her but she only sees me when it's convenient"
The Brutal Truth
She respects your availability but treats it casually. Your consistent effort means little if her interest hinges solely on convenience. This isn't love—it's self-serving behavior, and it's a red flag.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try harder to be available, thinking it will change her behavior. But this only reinforces her inconsistency and their own low self-worth, leading to more heartache. It's a losing game.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does your willingness to always be available say about your self-worth and boundaries?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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