Why Your Date's Promises of Plans Might Be a Red Flag
The Situation
"He said he'll plan something but never does"
The Brutal Truth
His promises are empty. He’s either not that interested, lacks the motivation to actually plan, or wants to keep you hanging without commitment. It’s a way to keep you around while avoiding real effort or intimacy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might reach out constantly to remind him to plan, fearing that if they don't, they'll lose him. But this behavior reinforces low self-worth and neediness, which only pushes him further away.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do you need to feel valued and prioritized in a relationship, and is he delivering that?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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