Dealing with Distance: Understanding Commitment Issues in Dating
The Situation
"He's using distance as an excuse to see other people"
The Brutal Truth
He's using 'distance' as a cover to keep his options open. He isn't ready to commit and wants to maintain his freedom while keeping you on the hook.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after him, trying to prove their worth, or beg for clarity. This behavior fuels their insecurities and often leads to more pain and confusion.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would you need to feel truly secure and valued in a relationship, and how can you prioritize that moving forward?
✨ What To Do Next
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