When He Acts Like Your Boyfriend but Says He's Not Serious
The Situation
"He said he's not looking for anything serious but acts like my boyfriend"
The Brutal Truth
He's playing with your feelings while keeping his options open. The boyfriend act is a facade to keep you interested without making any real commitment. This is emotional manipulation at its finest, and you deserve better than mixed signals!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might start over-analyzing every interaction, seeking reassurance in his behaviors instead of recognizing the clarity of his words. This only leads to emotional exhaustion and the continued acceptance of unhealthy patterns. Don't fall into the trap of ignoring your worth!
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If a friend came to you with this situation, what would you advise her to do?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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