He Turns Every Argument Around on Me: A Red Flag
The Situation
"He turns every argument around on me"
The Brutal Truth
This guy is deflecting responsibility and manipulating the conversation to avoid accountability. He twists your words to make you feel guilty, leaving you confused and doubting your reality. It’s a clear sign of emotional manipulation and toxicity.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to placate him or apologize for things they didn't do to avoid further conflict. This behavior reinforces his manipulative tendencies and makes you lose sight of your own needs and truth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What patterns from the past have I overlooked that led me to accept this type of behavior?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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