He Wants to Combine Finances but Hides His Debt: Red Flags
The Situation
"He wants to combine finances but won't share his debt amount"
The Brutal Truth
He wants your financial commitment while keeping his debts a secret. This shows a lack of transparency and respect for your boundaries—he’s prioritizing his interests over yours. This is manipulative behavior that could lead to issues down the road.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might agree to combine finances without seeking clarity on his debt, fearing rejection or conflict. This is wrong because it ignores your worth and leads to potential financial stress. Your financial health should never be at risk for someone else's comfort.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who is transparent and accountable about their financial situation?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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