When Bribing Kids Reveals Toxic Parenting Patterns
The Situation
"He bribes the kids instead of setting boundaries"
The Brutal Truth
He’s avoiding responsibility and shirking boundaries by using bribes to manipulate behavior. This shows a lack of commitment to teaching healthy values and managing expectations, ultimately setting a confusing standard for both his kids and your relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to convince him to change or argue over his parenting style, which is unproductive. This behavior conflicts with the need for healthy boundaries and respect in a relationship.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish to feel safe in my relationships, and how do I want a partner to respect those boundaries?
✨ What To Do Next
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