What Does it Mean When Someone Comes Back After a Breakup?
The Situation
"She broke up with me then came back three months later"
The Brutal Truth
She left, realized she wanted you back, and hopes you’ll jump at the chance. This is emotional inconsistency and a lack of clear intentions. It’s not about love; it’s about her needs, leaving you as an option instead of a priority.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might rush to accept her back, fearing they may lose another chance at love. This is wrong because it reinforces unhealthy patterns and diminishes self-worth, putting her needs above your own.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of your past do you need to heal in order to stop accepting inconsistent love?
✨ What To Do Next
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