When Your Date Helps Their Ex Instead of You: Red Flags
The Situation
"She cancels our plans to help her ex move"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior reveals that he prioritizes his ex over your relationship, indicating unresolved feelings and a lack of commitment. You deserve better than someone who puts their past first without consideration for your time and feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince her to change her mind or show desperation for her attention. This is wrong because it undermines your own value and needs, fostering dependency rather than healthy boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels like you have to compete for someone's time and attention?
✨ What To Do Next
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