Understanding Budgeting Issues in Dating: Red Flags and Insights
The Situation
"She keeps saying she'll make a budget but never does"
The Brutal Truth
Her repeated promises to budget but no follow-through shows she's either not taking your relationship seriously or is avoiding deeper issues. It signals a pattern of inconsistency and lack of commitment, which is a red flag for future plans together.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to persuade her to stick to a budget, rationalizing her behavior as being unsure or unprepared. This is wrong because it ignores the clear signs of emotional unavailability and reliance on inconsistency, ultimately undermining their self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you have to chase someone who isn’t making commitments to the future?
✨ What To Do Next
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