What It Means When She Cancels Dates for Friends
The Situation
"She cancels our dates whenever her friends get bored"
The Brutal Truth
Her friends hold more value in her life than you do, and she's prioritizing their attention over building a connection with you. This signals a lack of investment in the relationship and a preference for temporary fun over real commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might chase after her, trying to prove your worth or beg for her attention, which only reinforces her behavior. This shows desperation rather than valuing yourself; you deserve someone who prioritizes you without prompting.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How do I feel when I’m not prioritized in a relationship, and what does that tell me about what I truly need?
✨ What To Do Next
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