Why Changing Your Mind About Moving for Love Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She said she'll move to be with me but keeps changing her mind"
The Brutal Truth
Her words don’t match her actions. She’s either unsure about her feelings or playing with your emotions. This inconsistency is a sign of emotional unavailability and commitment issues—don’t ignore it.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to persuade her to commit or express their fears excessively, believing that if they show enough need, it will change her mind. This is toxic, as it can push her further away and damage their self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth if you’re willing to chase someone who keeps moving the goalposts?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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