Still Talking to the Girl He Cheated With? Red Flags!
The Situation
"He's still talking to the girl he cheated with"
The Brutal Truth
His ongoing communication with the girl he cheated with means he’s not truly committed to you. He's likely keeping his options open and hasn’t taken responsibility for his actions. That’s a blatant lack of respect for your relationship and your feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to overanalyze every message or encounter, seeking reassurance from him or blaming themselves for his actions. This is wrong because it shifts the focus away from his betrayal and puts unfair pressure on you to manage his behavior.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you deserve to be treated with anything less than loyalty and respect?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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