His Cheating Is Not Just a Mistake: Understand the Red Flags
The Situation
"He cheated on me and said it was a mistake"
The Brutal Truth
He’s minimizing his betrayal and trying to brush it off while dismissing your pain. It shows a lack of respect for you and the relationship. This ‘mistake’ reflects deeper issues in his commitment and integrity, not just a momentary lapse.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after him for reassurance, apologizing for his actions and begging for him to come back, thinking they'll show love into submission. This only positions you as less worthy and reinforces the cycle of their behavior.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of my self-worth is tied to accepting less than I deserve in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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