When She's Using You for Clout and Ghosts You Online
The Situation
"She uses our relationship for clout and then ghosts me offline"
The Brutal Truth
She’s using the relationship for social validation, only to abandon you once she gets what she wants. Your worth is not a bargaining chip, and her actions show a lack of respect for you as a person.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after her, seeking closure or begging for explanations, which only reinforces her lack of respect. This move diminishes self-worth and continues the cycle of emotional unavailability.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my self-worth if I allow someone to use me for their own gain?
✨ What To Do Next
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