When He Wants Commitment Only After You've Moved On: What It Means
The Situation
"He said he's ready for commitment now after I moved on"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to regain control after realizing you’ve moved on. His ‘readiness’ is more about reacting to your independence than genuine commitment. This is a classic sign of emotional unavailability and manipulation.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might rush back into a relationship, believing his words, even though they stem from insecurity rather than genuine change. This rush comes from fear of being alone and undermines their own self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me believes I’m only worthy of love when I’m pursued?
✨ What To Do Next
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