Why His Commitment Only Lasts During the Holidays: Red Flags
The Situation
"He only wants commitment during the holidays"
The Brutal Truth
He’s only interested in a holiday fling, using temporary feelings to fill a void. Commitment isn’t genuine; he seeks comfort during festive seasons, not a real relationship year-round. This is about his needs, not yours.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to the idea that if they act accommodating or push for deeper conversations, he will change his mind. This is misguided because it ignores red flags and reinforces unhealthy patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to settle for temporary affection instead of pursuing a love that’s consistent and secure?
✨ What To Do Next
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