Why He Won't Commit: Understanding Commitment Issues in Dating
The Situation
"He said he's not seeing anyone else but won't be my boyfriend"
The Brutal Truth
He’s keeping you on a string, assuring you he’s not with anyone else, but he’s not ready to commit to you either. This is a classic ploy to keep you around without giving you what you deserve: a real relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might start doubting yourself, overanalyzing every interaction, and trying to prove your worth. This is wrong because it perpetuates insecurity and pushes you further from finding someone who values you unconditionally.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to invest only in relationships where commitment is mutual and clear?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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