Why Late Night Texts Signal Commitment Issues in Dating
The Situation
"He said he's looking for something serious but only texts late at night"
The Brutal Truth
His late-night texts scream inconsistency. He claims to want something serious, but his actions show he’s only interested in casual encounters. He’s not valuing you enough to invest in proper communication and connection during the day. Don’t let him waste your time.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might jump to reassuring him or cling to what little attention he gives, believing they can convince him of their worth. This is toxic because it prioritizes his needs over yours and undermines your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How does this situation reflect your past dating experiences and what does it reveal about your standards for love and commitment?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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