Understanding When Dating is All About Convenience
The Situation
"She only wants to hang out when it's convenient for her"
The Brutal Truth
Her interest in you is conditional, likely tied to her schedule and convenience. She’s not prioritizing you, which shows a lack of commitment and respect. You deserve more than being an option when it suits her.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may feel the need to chase her more, to prove their worth or seek her approval. This is damaging because it reinforces the unhealthy dynamic and neglects their own needs and self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth when you allow someone to treat you as a backup plan?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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