Cousins Pressure: How to Handle Engagement Questions in Dating
The Situation
"His cousins question why we aren't engaged yet and it stresses me out"
The Brutal Truth
His cousins are pushing for engagement because he might not have made his intentions clear. This reflects a lack of commitment and respect for your feelings, and it's stressing you out because you're uncertain about where you stand in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to speed up the relationship or settle for less to appease family expectations. This is wrong because it goes against your needs and self-worth. You shouldn't rush; the right partner respects your pace and aligns with your values.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What lines have you drawn in your mind about commitment, and are they grounded in your true desires or external pressures?
✨ What To Do Next
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