Why He Won't Talk About the Future: Red Flags Uncovered
The Situation
"He won't talk about the future with me"
The Brutal Truth
His refusal to discuss the future indicates a lack of commitment and emotional readiness. He’s likely avoiding deeper connection and responsibility, which shows he may not be invested in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to force the conversation about the future, seeking reassurance or clarity. This often pushes him further away as it raises pressure and can lead to frustration.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does wanting to discuss the future signify to you about your need for security and connection?
✨ What To Do Next
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