Navigating Long Distance & Future Talks in Dating
The Situation
"He said long distance is temporary but won't discuss the future"
The Brutal Truth
He's keeping you in the dark while dangling a promise of temporary distance, but avoids discussing what's next. This means he's probably not ready to commit and wants to keep you around without making real plans.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start over-analyzing every interaction, seeking reassurance or pushing for conversations about the future. This is wrong because it often leads to more pressure and could push him further away, reinforcing your insecurities instead of fostering clarity.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your own needs and boundaries over someone else's vague promises?
✨ What To Do Next
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