Why He Only Cuddles When It’s Cold: Understanding Mixed Signals
The Situation
"He only wants to cuddle when it's cold outside"
The Brutal Truth
He sees affection as a convenience rather than a commitment. Cuddling is reserved for his comfort, showing he’s emotionally unavailable when it comes to genuine intimacy and connection.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might scramble for reasons or excuses for his behavior, convincing themselves it's not that bad. This is a slippery slope because it encourages settling for crumbs instead of demanding what they truly deserve: consistent affection and care.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to have someone who values your warmth and presence all year round, not just when the conditions are right?
✨ What To Do Next
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