Understanding his mixed signals: Slow or fast in dating?
The Situation
"He said he wants to take things slow but tries to sleep with me"
The Brutal Truth
He's saying he wants to take things slow to keep you interested while pushing for physical intimacy. This is a tactic to manipulate your feelings and may indicate commitment issues or emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to sleep with him to prove their desirability, fearing rejection. This move can lead to compromised boundaries and deeper emotional pain.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my self-worth if I feel I have to compromise my boundaries for someone who can't be clear with their intentions?
✨ What To Do Next
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