Why You Should Be Wary of Dating Someone Who Keeps Cancelling
The Situation
"He keeps canceling dates for court hearings he never mentioned"
The Brutal Truth
His constant cancellations for court hearings he never mentioned show he’s hiding something. This is a major sign of emotional unavailability and disrespect. You deserve someone who prioritizes your time and isn’t living a secret life. Don't ignore the red flags!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep trying to reschedule and seeks reassurance from him. This is the wrong move because it prioritizes his needs over yours, reinforcing his inconsistency and showing you’re willing to be a backup plan. You deserve someone who is excited to see you!
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of this situation reflects what you believe you deserve in a relationship? Does this match your self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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