Why Being Comparatively Judged in Dating is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He compares me to other women constantly"
The Brutal Truth
He sees you as inferior compared to others and uses these comparisons to undermine your self-worth. This behavior shows his insecurity and a blatant lack of respect for you as an individual.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to prove their worth by constantly seeking validation, changing their appearance or behavior to fit his ideal. This is detrimental as it compromises their authenticity and self-esteem.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of me dims my light to fit into someone else's world?
✨ What To Do Next
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