Understanding Jealousy in Casual Relationships: Red Flags
The Situation
"She said she wants to keep things casual but gets jealous"
The Brutal Truth
She claims to want a casual relationship but exhibits jealousy, revealing her emotional inconsistency and insecurity. This mixed signal often indicates a deeper need for validation while pretending to be carefree. It's confusing and a sign she may not be ready for true casual dating.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze her jealousy, constantly seeking reassurance and trying to 'fix' the situation. This is toxic because it leads to neglecting their own needs and diminishing their self-worth by prioritizing her emotions over their own.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels the need to reassure someone who can't communicate their feelings clearly?
✨ What To Do Next
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