Dating a Divorced Man Still Married: What You Need to Know
The Situation
"He said he's going through a divorce but he's still married"
The Brutal Truth
He's not available and is likely using you as a distraction while he remains in his marriage. This is a major red flag—he's stalling his own life while asking you to invest emotionally.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may bend over backward to prove their worth, hoping to support him through his struggles and earn his commitment. This is an unhealthy approach, as it sacrifices their own needs for someone unwilling to fully engage.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If a friend were in your shoes, what would you advise her to do in this situation?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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