Why Saying He Sees a Future But Won't Discuss It Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He said he sees a future with me but won't discuss it"
The Brutal Truth
His vague promises about a future are just empty words. He’s keeping you in the dark while minimizing his emotional commitment, leading you on without real intentions.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to push for a conversation about the future, fearing abandonment and trying to secure a commitment. This often backfires, making you seem clingy and desperate instead of empowered.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize clarity and commitment in your relationships rather than settling for ambiguity?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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