Dating Red Flag: He's Older and Compares You to Women His Age
The Situation
"He's older and compares me to women his age"
The Brutal Truth
He's likely insecure about his own aging and uses these comparisons to assert dominance or belittle you. This is a sign of emotional immaturity and a lack of respect for your individuality.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze his words, seeking approval or trying to 'prove' their worth. This is damaging and keeps them stuck in a cycle of self-doubt.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How would you feel if someone celebrated your uniqueness instead of comparing you to others?
✨ What To Do Next
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