Dating Red Flag: He Lives with His Ex - What It Really Means
The Situation
"He lives with his ex and says it's just until he finds a place"
The Brutal Truth
He's not fully moved on and likely uses this as a safety net. His intentions aren't clear, and he's keeping his options open while you might be investing in a one-sided situation. Don't let this distract you from your self-worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to this relationship, hoping he'll change and that his living situation is temporary. This is wrong because it normalizes unhealthy patterns and diminishes their own value; they deserve someone who is fully available and committed.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What patterns are you repeating that keep you from attracting a partner who values you completely?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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