Dating Red Flag: He Lies About Wearing Protection
The Situation
"He lies about wearing protection when he knows I track ovulation"
The Brutal Truth
He’s manipulating you, disregarding your trust and autonomy, and using deceit to satisfy his desires. This is a blatant violation of your safety and consent, showing he encompasses toxic traits, prioritizing his pleasure over your well-being.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
Anxiously, you might try to justify his behavior, thinking that maybe you misunderstood things. You could end up ignoring your instincts and feelings, compromising your boundaries to 'keep the peace.' This leads to deep self-betrayal.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize your safety and well-being above all else in your dating life?
✨ What To Do Next
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