Dating Red Flags: He Uses My Insecurities Against Me
The Situation
"He uses my insecurities against me"
The Brutal Truth
He knows your vulnerabilities and exploits them to maintain power over you. This manipulation is a tactic that reveals his lack of respect for your feelings, and it keeps you trapped in insecurity instead of fostering healthy love.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease him or over-explain their feelings, hoping to eliminate his criticism. This approach is misguided; it only reinforces the unhealthy dynamic and devalues their self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
Why do I feel it's my responsibility to quiet his insecurities, and how can I prioritize my self-respect instead?
✨ What To Do Next
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