Why Dating Someone Who's Separated But Living with Their Spouse is Risky
The Situation
"He said he's separated but he's still living with his wife"
The Brutal Truth
He's not really separated; he's still tied to his wife. This means he's either scared to commit or keeping his options open. You deserve someone who is fully available, not someone still living in the past.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling more tightly or push for reassurances, thinking they can fix things. This is a mistake; it only reinforces their uncertainty and leaves no room for healthy boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize dating someone who fully shows up for you, without reservations?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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